I found this Quote in a book, just thought it was interesting with some truth.
"When life offers you a dream so far beyond any of your expectations, it's not reasonable to grieve when it comes to an end."
I am certainly not saying that I am not grieving just that it is an interesting way of looking at something so terrible. As many of you know, I did feel I had a dream so far beyond my expectations and I am so thankful that I found that dream, some people never have what Eric and I had. It helps me to remember to celebrate our life together and not focus on the loss.